That One Leftover Negatively Bolstered Conduct


It took solely 4 items of kibble to repair an issue I’ve had for about eight years.

Way back, I sought to cease utilizing physique stress to maneuver my canine round in house. This was a aware and critical effort. For me, and for my canine, utilizing physique stress was not a benign endeavor. You possibly can see two of my very early YouTube movies about it. Unfavorable vs. Constructive Reinforcement and Instructing a Canine to Again Up with out Utilizing Physique Strain.

Perhaps it’s as a result of I’ve had a good variety of scaredy or delicate canine, however I’ve seen the fallout of utilizing physique stress so regularly. And I don’t need my particular person to be one thing a canine avoids! I need them to be snug with me, to method me, to maneuver into my house, and never flinch or flee if I transfer gently into theirs. I need them to have nice associations with my bodily presence.

However from the title, you possibly can see I didn’t fully succeed. There was one final conduct I taught with R-.

I’m not speaking concerning the unintended methods R- creeps into our lives with our canine and even into our coaching. That in all probability nonetheless occurs generally with out my understanding it. And I’m not speaking about issues like letting a canine depart a coaching session, which can be a deliberate selection however nonetheless represents a mistake on my half. I’m speaking a few deliberate selection I made to use stress to get an escape conduct. Sure, reader, I did it.

How We Acquired There: Arranging Canine on the Mattress

Clara didn’t get “sleeping within the mattress” privileges till she was nearly two years previous. That didn’t must do together with her conduct. It was the truth of getting a family with 4 canine, one in every of whom (Summer season) actually needed to take out one other (Cricket). I had a measurement 300 crate on my mattress for Summer season, Cricket and Zani had been unfastened on the mattress, and I didn’t have room for Clara the hulk. She slept as she had from the primary evening in my home, in a crate on the ground proper subsequent to my place on the mattress.

A large bed with a dog crate on top of it with a brown dog in the crate. There is a smaller black and white dog loose on the bed. There is a lump under the covers where another dog is lying.
Summer season within the crate, Cricket up by the pillows, and Zani underneath the covers within the foreground

I dismantled that complete setup after Cricket died in 2013. I moved Summer season’s crate to the ground (she nonetheless slept there more often than not). Clara received mattress privileges and by no means left. I’ll always remember her first evening. She planted herself proper up towards my leg and didn’t transfer all evening. Anthropomorphizing just a bit: she appeared incredulous at this growth and stayed nonetheless as if to not blow the chance. She has by no means as soon as gotten away from bed at evening except she was about to be sick.

The Undesirable Conduct

A black and tan dog rests her head on the bed covers and looks seriously at the camera
I’m fairly certain this picture from August 2013 was Clara’s first evening attending to sleep on the mattress

So what was Clara’s undesirable conduct on which I used unfavourable reinforcement? Was she bullying different canine? Being noisy? Attempting to play or in any other case making hassle at evening? No. It was that each evening as I used to be on the point of go to mattress, she received in mattress earlier than me in my actual place. She received proper up towards my pillow and made herself snug proper the place I deliberate to sleep. Each. Single. Night time.

So each evening once I was able to go to mattress, I wanted Clara to maneuver.

Years earlier than, in one other context, a coach I revered informed me that whereas she let her canine get on her mattress and sleep together with her in the event that they preferred, she by no means used treats on the mattress. She mentioned the mattress was rewarding already and hanging out on the mattress was a privilege. Additionally, she discouraged play on the mattress as a result of she needed it to be a spot for leisure.

I took these phrases to coronary heart, in all probability out of the context through which she initially meant them. No treats, no play on the mattress. Examine.

The outcome: I left myself with no potent optimistic reinforcement strategies to maneuver my canine. And it didn’t happen to me to attempt a hand goal, as an illustration, and reinforce with petting and candy speak. Or I might have made another space on the mattress further engaging with fluffy blankets. Neither of those would in all probability have labored towards “that particular spot” however I want I had at the least tried.

How I Used Unfavorable Reinforcement

Each evening I made Clara transfer over by saying, “Transfer,” and nudging her or pushing into her house. I did this understanding it was not in live performance with my ethics, however I couldn’t consider any alternate options. I wasn’t forceful about it, however R- is R-. You may get avoidance with a tiny stimulus. And within the typical development of unfavourable reinforcement, Clara began shifting away earlier in my behavioral sequence, earlier than I even mentioned something. All I needed to do was stroll towards my place on the mattress and she or he leaped up and out of the way in which. (She by no means stopped getting there within the first place.)

I didn’t like this. It made me unhappy for my canine to see me coming and transfer away as if I had prodded her with a stick. That’s the factor about R-. I wasn’t even touching her at this level. I didn’t must. She noticed the precursor, which had grow to be the (aversive) cue to maneuver, and she or he moved. And the transfer was recognizable as a transfer away from one thing disagreeable. It didn’t have the look of a contented, positively bolstered conduct.

This has bothered me for freaking years: my beloved good friend springing out of the way in which as if I had been a hazard to her.

What I’m Doing Now

Enter Lewis. Nothing like a brand new canine in your life to make you rethink issues.

The primary couple of nights, Lewis selected to sleep in a canine mattress on the ground. Then he received up on the mattress with Clara and me. Then he moved near me and began to snuggle.

Then he determined he needed Clara’s present place proper subsequent to my head and higher physique. He’s an formidable little man, and no matter Clara has, he desires. It was not OK with me for him to bump her out of her place, however Clara wasn’t assertive sufficient to face her floor. I used to be going to have to maneuver a canine round on the mattress once more.

So I thought of it for 2 seconds and determined the “No meals on the mattress” rule was going to go. I took the ridiculously straightforward choice of grabbing 4 items of kibble from a jar, getting Lewis’ consideration, and tossing two of them the place I needed him to go. Then I used the opposite two to carry Clara subsequent to me (her regular spot) when he was out of the way in which. (Neither of them useful resource guards kibble.)

As an alternative of a canine trying up at me worriedly as I approached, I had two cheerful faces trying up at me. “Right here come our final two treats of the day. The place are you going to toss them?”

One Different Change

Lewis’ arrival introduced one other change: my mattress is now coated with chew gadgets and toys. I see two Nylabones, a water buffalo horn, a type of onerous tree roots, three stuffed toys, one unstuffed toy husk, and a bit of cardboard. Clearly, the “Mattress is just for sleeping” rule has gone away as effectively. (All chews have dangers; I’m not making suggestions for anybody else’s canine.)

This implies there are different types of reinforcement accessible for Lewis apart from consolation and cuddling. So once I direct him away from my spot, I’m not sending him to a desert. I toss the kibble towards one in every of his favourite gadgets. He might settle there, or he might return to cuddle towards my legs. His selection.

A white dog with red ears and red freckles is curled up on a colorful blanket
Lewis doesn’t look too sad along with his “second selection”


No aversive is simply too small to be involved about. I do know of a canine who began growling and snapping at his proprietor when she introduced out the Scotch tape to work on the “disguise your face” trick. I do know of one other who grew to become dangerously aggressive after his proprietor used a squirt bottle on him. I even know of 1 who began biting the household after being eliminated bodily from the sofa, fairly much like my subject.

Clara has by no means been aggressive, fortunate for me. The fallout for us was the avoidance. Her optimistic conditioned emotional response to me was broken. In all probability solely in a small manner, since there have been so many nice experiences on the opposite aspect of the dimensions. However I actually don’t need any of my canine to see me coming and assume, “OMG, higher transfer!”

The Cause for This Submit

I think about I’ll get some horrified responses from fellow optimistic reinforcement-based trainers at my admission of lately utilizing unfavourable reinforcement to get a conduct. However this isn’t a brand new admission. Right here’s a publish the place I listed conditions through which I could have used it. I don’t condone it; in reality, I hate the insidiousness of it, and I at all times attempt to determine a greater manner. As I enhance as a coach, I can eradicate it and make issues extra enjoyable for my canine.

However I additionally anticipate the alternative response, that the problem is ridiculous and beneath consideration. “She wrote an entire publish about how unhappy it was that her canine needed to transfer over!” These readers might say my canine have to toughen up and even that I’m letting them dominate me.

However my causes for the publish are larger than that one small conduct. One purpose was to share that I took one thing too actually and didn’t assume for myself. That could be a mistake I make as a non-professional. I simply don’t have the breadth of expertise to keep away from misapplying issues as “guidelines.” The opposite, extra sensible purpose for sharing is that I—and all of us—can at all times rethink a coaching approach. Nothing ought to be beneath scrutiny.

I remorse utilizing my physique as one thing to keep away from.

Clara and Lewis

I’m glad Clara now provides me an keen look once I method the mattress at evening, ready for her items of kibble. (Kibble! That’s all it took!)

And Lewis doesn’t at all times vie for her place now. He waits subsequent to the mattress to see the place I’ll throw his kibble. Candy!

And the irony: Lewis is just not a delicate soul. I by no means tried it, however I’m fairly certain from different experiences that he wouldn’t have yielded to my physique stress in any respect. He’s a grasp at getting out of the blue limp and really heavy.

I’m glad for each of them I lastly used my mind and stopped listening to a voice from way back.

A white dog with red ears and red freckles is sitting on a maroon rug next to a bed, looking up at the camera
Lewis ready for his directional kibble

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